The Conflict in Life

Have you ever thought about the conflict in your life? It could be a conflict between you and someone or yours with yourself.

Fig.1. « The conflict of person and person », nclutheran.org, 2018-03, https://nclutheran.org/2018-03-reflections-conflict/, accessed date 6 Feb 2020.

Recently, we learned about a short story that is « The sea devil » in the « Inside story ». The story said about a conflict of a man with a sea devil and a man with himself. After all happened the main character changed at the end of the story.

Fig.2. « The sea devil », sl.wikipedia.org, 20 nov 2009, https://sl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skati#/media/Slika:Atlantic_mobula_lisbon.jpg, accessed date 6 Feb 2020.

After reading the story, I realized that in daily life. There are also many conflicts, then it makes us change something that can be behaviours or attitudes with different issues.

Fig.3. « The change of attitude and behaviour », trainerbubble.com, https://www.trainerbubble.com/downloads/interpersonal-skills/, accessed date 6 Feb 2020.

I also had a conflict with my friends about 3 years ago. Me and that person are very close, and she is my best friend. Once when she and I disagreed about a small problem in learning and life, we argued very seriously. After that, she and I thought we could not return to our original friendship anymore. However, when we thought back on those reasons and about our friendship. Me and her gradually changed our views and our relationship has returned to normal. Since then I have found that after every conflict we become more mature in our way of thinking and acting. Moreover it can help you and your friendship become more connected, understand each other and respect each other more.

Fig.4. « Friendship », fcaweb.org, 1/5/2017, http://www.fcaweb.org/news/tfcchildcare/, accessed date 6 Feb 2020.

In conclusion, each conflict has its own reasons, but if you can know its cause, you can resolve it easily, and after a fight, the feelings will become more emotional better.

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